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Surrogacy is a powerful way to build a family, but it can also feel complex and overwhelming. An independent surrogacy consultant helps you weigh up destinations, laws, agencies and costs, so you know where to begin and what to avoid.
That’s where my support can make a real difference.
Agencies naturally promote their own programmes. By contrast, my job is to help you compare options across several countries and providers, so you can see what fits your circumstances. I’m independent of any agency, clinic or law firm, so the focus stays on what’s right for you.
I’m Shaun, founder of The Surrogacy Father. More importantly, I’m a dad of three through international surrogacy. I’ve been in your shoes, so I understand the highs, the uncertainty and the decisions that keep you up at night.
I started The Surrogacy Father to offer the honest, personal support we once longed for. Today, I help individuals and couples, both LGBTQ+ and heterosexual, across the UK, Ireland, Europe and the Americas.
You don’t have to work this out alone.
A surrogacy journey is one of the most exciting and complex experiences of your life. It brings big decisions, emotional highs and lows, and plenty of unknowns. For that reason, good guidance from the start can save you time, money and stress.
An independent surrogacy consultant doesn’t just understand the process. They also help you feel confident, informed and supported at each stage.
In practice, working with a consultant helps you:
Because an independent consultant doesn’t sell a programme, the focus stays on your goals and circumstances.
With my support, you will:
I have been through this journey three times, and now I help others through theirs.
I’m not tied to any agency or clinic, so my guidance focuses on your circumstances and goals.
Every family’s journey is unique. Whether you are just starting or deep into the process, I tailor my support to your needs.
I specialise in supporting gay men, and I welcome every intended parent, wherever you live and whoever you love.
Surrogacy has many moving parts. With an experienced guide beside you, you’re less likely to waste time on unsuitable programmes or be caught out by unexpected setbacks.
I know the questions, worries and challenges that come up, because I’ve faced them myself. So you get clear answers and help spotting problems before they grow.
Not every programme operates ethically, and not every clinic is open about its success rates. That’s why I show you how to check a provider’s standards, so you can choose one that matches your values.
With experience across Europe and the Americas, I help you compare destinations on budget, timeline and legal protection.
Choosing a surrogacy programme and egg donor is deeply personal. While I don’t match you with anyone, I help you understand how matching works and what good screening looks like.
Many intended parents spend far more than planned because of hidden costs or unclear quotes. Together, we break down pricing and spot red flags before you sign.
If you are considering surrogacy overseas, you need to understand local laws, clinic reputations and exit processes. I help you plan for these early, so there are fewer surprises later.
Bringing your baby home involves paperwork, passports and legal steps. I help you understand what’s involved and when to bring in a specialist lawyer, so you’re prepared well in advance.
Surrogacy is a rollercoaster, with exciting moments and difficult ones. With a consultant, you have someone to turn to when things get tough.
Ultimately, working with an Independent Surrogacy Consultant means fewer surprises, better decisions, and a smoother, more enjoyable journey. Instead of feeling lost in logistics and paperwork, you can focus on what truly matters—preparing for parenthood.
With the right guidance, surrogacy doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. Instead, it can be exciting and empowering, and you stay in control.
Start with a free 15-minute call, and we’ll work out your next step together.
