Surrogacy is a powerful way to build a family — but it can also be complex and overwhelming. With so many destinations, legal frameworks, agencies, and financial commitments to consider, knowing where to begin (and what to avoid) is essential.
That’s where working with an Independent Surrogacy Consultant can make all the difference.
Unlike agencies that promote their own programmes or providers, I work solely for you. I offer clear, unbiased guidance across multiple countries and options — helping you understand what’s right for your unique circumstances, not anyone else’s agenda.
I’m Shaun — founder of The Surrogacy Father, one of Europe’s leading independent international surrogacy consultants. But more importantly, I’m a dad of three through international surrogacy myself. I’ve been in your shoes. I understand the emotional highs, the uncertainties, and the decisions that keep you up at night.
I started The Surrogacy Father to offer the kind of trusted, experienced, and personal support we once longed for on our own journey. Today, I support individuals and couples — LGBTQ+ and heterosexual — across the UK, Europe, the Americas and beyond as they take this incredible step toward parenthood.
You don’t have to do this alone. I’ll be with you every step of the way.
Embarking on a surrogacy journey is one of the most exciting yet complex experiences of your life. It is filled with big decisions, emotional highs and lows, and a lot of unknowns. Having the right guidance from the start can save you time, money, and stress, ensuring a smoother and more successful experience.
An Independent Surrogacy Consultant is not just someone who understands the process—they are someone who walks alongside you, making sure you feel confident, informed, and supported at every stage.
But beyond just advice, working with a Consultant means you get hands-on support—helping you:
Unlike agencies and clinics that promote their own programmes, an Independent Surrogacy Consultant works for you—ensuring your best interests always come first.
With my guidance, you will:
I have been through this journey myself and now help others do the same.
I am not tied to any agencies or clinics, so my guidance is in your best interest.
Every family’s journey is unique. Whether you are just starting or deep into the process, I tailor my advice to your needs.
I support all intended parents, no matter where you are from or who you love.
Surrogacy can feel overwhelming, with so many moving parts. Having an expert by your side means you won’t waste time with unreliable agencies, overpriced programmes, or unexpected setbacks.
I have been through this myself, and I know the questions, worries, and challenges that come up. You will have a dedicated expert walking you through each stage—answering your questions and troubleshooting issues before they become problems.
Not all surrogacy programmes operate ethically, and not all clinics are transparent about their success rates. I ensure you only work with trusted professionals, reputable clinics, and ethical agencies that align with your values.
With connections across Europe and the Americas, I help intended parents find the best-fit surrogacy destination based on budget, timeline, and legal protections.
Finding the right surrogate or egg donor is one of the most personal parts of the journey. I provide hands-on support in selecting safe, ethical, and suitable matches, ensuring you feel confident in your choices.
Many intended parents unknowingly spend thousands more than necessary due to hidden costs or inflated fees. I help break down pricing, identify red flags, and negotiate better terms where possible.
If you are considering surrogacy overseas, you need someone who understands the local laws, clinic reputations, and exit processes. I will help you navigate international surrogacy smoothly and avoid unnecessary delays.
Bringing your baby home is not just about the birth—it is about paperwork, passports, and legal processes. I ensure you are fully prepared to handle citizenship, visas, and other post-birth requirements.
Surrogacy is a roller coaster. There will be exciting moments, but also challenges along the way. Having a Consultant means you are never alone—you have someone to turn to when things get tough.
Ultimately, working with an Independent Surrogacy Consultant means fewer surprises, better decisions, and a smoother, more enjoyable journey. Instead of feeling lost in logistics and paperwork, you can focus on what truly matters—preparing for parenthood.
With the right guidance, surrogacy does not have to feel overwhelming. Instead, it can be an exciting, empowering experience—one where you feel in control, supported, and confident in your decisions.
You do not have to figure this out alone. Let’s take this journey together.
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